Have you ever been in a situation where you had a hunch about something but weren’t quite sure of it, only for someone to come along and not only reaffirm your hunch but get into details you wish you had not known?

How about this happening to you more than once?

These situations are what I refer to as “JFK Movie park bench moments.” They have happened a couple of times in my career, and I’d like to share these here.

But first, the movie scene

If you have no idea of what I am talking about, let me explain. JFK is a movie starring Kevin Costner and directed by Oliver Stone that came out in 1991. It was about the assassination of US President John F. Kennedy through the eyes of the District Attorney of New Orleans, Louisiana, Jim Garrison.

When Garrison discovers a possible connection to JFK’s murder in New Orleans and his investigation goes public, he travels to Washington, DC to meet someone called “X,” played eerily by Donald Sutherland. They meet around the Washington Mall and sit on a park bench where X proceeds to tell Garrison that not only is he on the right track with his investigation, but provides details about it that are almost too incredible to believe. Of course when Garrison asks X to testify in his trial he says no.

Fast forward a few years

I always remembered that scene from the movie as was so unique – 2 men, sitting alone on a park bench away from – but close to – so many, with one learning the “straight dope” of what led to JFK being shot in Dallas, Texas from the other. This scene came back to me a couple of times in my career after first seeing the movie, when I found out about truths about jobs I had that, in both cases, convinced me to leave before I would have been terminated!

The Numbers and People Lie

After finishing a long-term consulting project with a firm I was working for, I went back to the firm’s office on a weekend to take care of some paperwork. When I printed a few things I grabbed the printouts from the printer only to also get some reports left on the printer by someone else. Among them was a revenue report showing me at the top of the report. Where one’s ego might be stroked to see that, my hourly rate was extremely low for the senior role I had managing the project I just left. Further down on the report were many people who were not bringing in any revenue at all.

Was all I heard about how well the firm was doing a lie? The next week I went to lunch with another consultant at the firm. Armed with the knowledge of this revenue report but not wanting to disclose it, over the meal I asked him how he thought the firm was doing. Thank goodness I have a strong stomach, as I would have tossed it up my lunch after our conversation. The modest cafeteria we were in served as the park bench and grassy for my JFK movie moment as he told me what he knew about the vitality of the firm.

This was eye opening, shocking, yet gave me a great calm in the next steps I took to leave the firm, which I did a few months later. Another six or so months after I left, the firm itself shuttered, leaving some smart people caught in a reaction to my earlier pro-action, scooped up by other lucky companies soon after.

Building the ship while it is sailing is not a good idea

Later in my career I took a leadership role on a high-profile project for an international firm. As one of the first people to join the project team, I not only had the good fortune to be able to build my own team from the ground up, but was involved in much of the interviewing across the project, helping to ensure people who joined would work well in our culture.

Early on I met with one of the senior leaders of the team, who gave an analogy in describing what we were doing that I would never forget, as he said we were “building the ship while it is sailing.” Where initially I saw this as a great opportunity, this feeling waned over time as I felt those sailing and building were far from being in sync.

There were a few managers on the project I got to know – some better than others, and one night as I was departing the office I ran into one of the managers I knew well. We chatted a bit, then felt a local pub would be a better venue to continue our conversations. After a few beverages and some good food we departed for home heading in the same direction. He was staying in a corporate apartment in a place I could never afford.

He invited me to check out said apartment and to continue our conversations. I sat in an oversized leather chair, he poured a couple of glasses of Hennessey, placed the bottle down, and then I sensed another JFK movie park bench moment in the making. He proceeded to reaffirm a lot of the concerns I had on the project, and blew me away with the history and politics of the project, and his projections for where it was going to go. Needless to say that bottle of Hennessey didn’t last long as the tales of international intrigue flew around the room.

But like before, as uncomfortable as it was to hear, it was exactly what I needed to hear. The next morning, as bleary eyed as I was, I started my quest for a new gig which I landed a few months later. Sadly within a year the whole project was shutdown, after a tumultuous ride for the dedicated team that stuck around through it all.

Deconstructing JFK Movie Park Bench Moments

Life has many mysteries. Some of them we find out, but many we go to our grave never knowing the real story of what went on. Whether or not what X was telling Garrison in the movie was completely true or not – and we may never know either way for sure – the drama of the moment stands out and can be a catalyst for action. For Jim Garrison it was to pursue the truth of the JFK murder, for me it was to find new jobs. What could it be for you?

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To those who believe, Merry Christmas!

To those who do not, have a great Tuesday!

Pictured is the Christmas Eve mass at St. Bernadette Church in Appleton, Wisconsin.

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dMorning is an informal networking meetup event for people who work in the tech and creative fields in and around Northeast Wisconsin.

Our next event will be on Friday, December 14, 2018, from 7:30 – 9:30 am at the new offices of Dealer Inspire, 423 West College Avenue, Appleton, WI 54911. Dealer Inspire is an innovative, scrappy disruptor building unprecedented websites and technology to help car dealerships sell more. Special thanks to Dealer Inspire for hosting our next event!

Though there's no cost, please RSVP – you can do so with Eventbrite or Meetup.

dMorning was started to provide a casual environment for those who work in the technology and creative fields in Northeast Wisconsin to meet, network and have a beverage of choice. The idea is to meet in the morning before the day gets hectic. There are no set rules and no agenda. More information is available at dMorning.com.

Hope to see you there!

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As my personal exploration into the world of writing continues, despite the infrequency you may notice here on this little blog, I have been reading more literary publications. These have included various Web sites, plus I continue to read December magazine’s biannual publications. Though I don’t put pen to paper as much as I’d like to, I am gaining inspiration for when I do through the works of others.

I happened upon a copy of Poetry Magazine a while back in a doctor’s office waiting room. Where I had heard about the century-plus year old poetry magazine, I had never read a copy. As the March 2017 copy before my eyes was in good company with other outdated periodicals in the seating area, I took it upon myself to put this edition to good use and literally took it. When I finally got to curl up with the paperback magazine, I not only moved forward with it on my creative journey, but I also took a fresh look back as well. I share those with you as my takeaways.

My knowledge of poetry is grade-school basic – If you’ve read The Hot Iron over time, it would come as no surprise that I spent more time in the computer lab than in any classroom. As a result, liberal arts classes like English and language never got the attention, years later I realize, they should have. When I think of a poem, I think of Dr. Seuss or the Man from Nantucket. Granted I have read some poetry in recent years in December magazine, after reading a pure poetry publication I realized my learning about this literary style ended around middle school.

The more I read the more I enjoy it – There are a wide variety of styles of poetry, some close to what I remember from school with meter and rhyming, and others where for me it’s hard to follow the formatting and subject of the poem. But as with many things, the more you are exposed to it, the more you will like it.

Learning that relates to you means more to you – The March 2017 edition of Poetry Magazine closes with what is called “Comment” which itself is not poetry, but rather a dialogue on poetry. Among the different poems, poets and styles the author of this piece discusses includes Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening, a poem by fellow New Englander Robert Frost. This was a poem I remember from childhood, mainly due to said geographic affiliation as well as the last lines of the poem which were planted in the back of my head back then, “And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep.“ After reading this in the final pages of the journal, it helped round out what I have been reading and experienced now with something I read and experienced many years ago.

Poetry Magazine is a periodical you can subscribe to or find at higher-end newsstands (if there is even one by you). Their Web site has a wealth of poetry to explore and read, and they also offer a Poem of the Day newsletter. With our inboxes filled daily with things we don’t want to read, it’s nice to have an interesting diversion among the unwanted refuse. As I pass along all that I have read, I neatly placed this copy of Poetry Magazine among some newspapers on the table of the coffeeshop where I wrote these takeaways. Perhaps someone else will learn something as they fulfill the promises they keep.

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